Secrets of the Boys Club
Submitted On 2007-04-27
Here's more insider information to help you understand what some guys really mean by their MAN-nerisms, comments and responses:
Identity - Maintain it! You were an individual without him; so make sure you are an individual with him. There is nothing more attractive on this earth than a woman who makes sure the man knows she would be just fine without him. Women who require time for themselves or "alone time" come across as secure, independent, and just a little bit mysterious. Simply put: itís a turn on!
Confidence - There is no other way to be! You must maintain confidence in the way you look, in his feelings toward you, and in all of your actions.
A woman, who knows she looks great, no matter the circumstance is truly sexy. Look your best always. Do not talk about it, complain about it, or dwell on it. Do Not Call Boys - Guess what, your mama was right, good girls donít call boys. In the beginning, you must make him believe that he is an afterthought. This means that while you are getting to know him, you cannot ignore the rest of your life. Simply put, you will get back to him when you have a chance.
Men Love with Their Eyes Ė Initially, a man is driven by whatever he finds visually appealing. Men are not approaching you because you look intelligent, kind or secure. Remember, if he likes what he sees, heís going to go after it.
Men Do Not Want Female Friends - If they do want to "be friends" they have already, probably attempted to be intimately involved with you. Most likely they failed at the attempt, so the friendship thing is a way to expedite their exit from your life. But, that is not the only reason. If a guy first approaches you to be his friend, he is most likely not sexually attracted to you, and that is not likely to change.
Men Do Not Know What They Want - Most of their actions are driven on impulse, so if we get what we want too soon, we lose interest. If we donít get what we want immediately, it becomes a challenge. The rule is to make a man wait! If you give yourself to him on the first date, heíll be gone by the second.
The Male Species is the Most Easily Intimidated Species on the Planet - Your successes, female strength, and intellect can be liabilities with the wrong guy because he will be scared of you. Successful women often have a hard time finding a man, because not all of them can deal with a brilliant, driven woman. You must find a man who embraces who you are and what you do, if you donít, you will be compromising forever.
Men Do not Initially Respond Well to Complete Availability - Make yourself unavailable, even if you have the whole weekend free! Never say "YES!" the first time he asks you for a date unless he asks you five days in advance. Let him understand that you have a life, and you are fitting him in. Just trust me on this one!
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